Congratulations on your engagement!  We look forward to sharing our pre-marriage process with you and your fiancé as you prepare for this Holy Sacrament.

*At least one of you must be a registered member of the parish.  Please contact Fr. Gary Mayer at least six months in advance.  Below are the marriage preparation steps at St. Elizabeth Ann Seton:

• Initial Meeting with Fr. Gary: Fr. Gary will meet with you regarding your freedom to marry and will assist you in setting a date for your wedding. Please contact Fr. Gary Mayer. 
  • At this meeting you will fill out the Prepare/Enrich Couple Assessment.  This assessment helps couples gain a deeper understanding of dynamics, personality, strengths and areas for growth.
  • Fr. Gary will share information regarding a PRE-CANA EVENT through the Archdiocese of Dubuque couples are asked to do prior to being married.

• After this meeting you will receive an email from Trish Lokmer, the Marriage Preparation Coordinator, to discuss finding a marriage mentor couple.  This Catholic married couple will assist you on your faith journey as well as your engagement and married life.

• You will also receive an email from Maria Hagan, Director of Liturgy and Music to discuss planning your wedding liturgy.